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How to create a long-term relationship

Do you dream of a long-lasting relationship? All your relationships have failed, your current relationship is one thread? I know how you feel. For a long time, I had the same problem. My relationships were not working. Until the day I understood the secret: I call it Relational lines!

Well, what do I mean? People who exercise an extreme and dangerous sport like a parachute, KITE know it: You ALWAYS have to check your lines: No crossing, no knots otherwise you risk your life. If you are not adept at these sports just let me explain: if the lines are not properly connected, you can lose your control and have a serious, maybe even fatal accident.

Did you know that in a relationship it is the same? You have found someone and you think: that’s it! Finally, you fly! Attention! A relationship is fragile and if you want to build in the long term, it requires vigilance and permanent maintenance. A relationship is comparable to the lines linking the wing to the bar and the tip flange. What binds you to the other is the relationship! If you are unsure of the proper functioning, you are going to hurt yourself.

And you, have you thought about watching over the lines of your relationship?

Wondering what relational lines are? How to create a lasting relationship? For being able to build a happy, healthy and successful longlasting deep intimate relationship you need certain skills. Often we fail in our relationship because we have never learned the skills we need for creating a long-lasting relationship.

Do you want to learn more about how to:

  • create a deep intimate relationship in the long run?
  • resolve conflicts with your partner?
  • create a deep connection and a profound bond with your partner?
  • remove blocks and boredom in your relationship?
  • communicate to be heard and understood by your partner?
  • be authentic without playing power games in your relationship?
  • avoid relationship drama while communicating your feelings?
  • understand your relationship patterns?

Learn more here…

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful lifeJulia Noyel is founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful life and art of different, happy, healthy & successful employees. She is a highly sensitive & creative person, empath and certified coach & psychological advisor, consultant & trainer and expert in self-confidence, for highly sensitive and creative people, INFPs and empaths. Watch powerful free tools on her youtube channel. Her mission is to help as many people as possible to live a different, happy, healthy & successful life.

© Julia Noyel 2017, photo fotolia: © JackF, all rights reserved.

Happy relationship – How to choose the right partner if you want a long term relationship

Happy relationship – How to choose the right partner

You want a happy relationship? Are you wondering how to choose the right partner if you want a long term relationship? You are right. When we are in love we can become blind and do not really see the person we are in love with. Many of us want a happy long-term relationship, but invest to much time with a person who is not able to build a long term relationship. Continuer la lecture de Happy relationship – How to choose the right partner if you want a long term relationship 

Happy relationship – Why you might think twice about the kind of investment strategy you use in your love life if you want to create intimacy

Happy relationship What kind of investment strategy do you use in your love life

 By Julia Noyel

Portfolio theory and diversification are popular economic and marketing strategies to minimize your risk in business and in the financial world. Their aim: maximize your return and minimize your risk by selecting and dispersing your investments wisely. The concepts might work well in business, but do they also work in love?

Continuer la lecture de Happy relationship – Why you might think twice about the kind of investment strategy you use in your love life if you want to create intimacy 

Your partner is highly sensitive – 10 strategies for a happy relationship

by Julia Noyel

Your partner is highly sensitive? Sometimes you do not understand the reactions of your highly sensitive partner? Being highly sensitive is not easy neither for the hypersensitive partner nor for you as a ‘normally sensitive’ person.  In this article, I give you some tips on how to have a happy relationship with a hypersensitive person.

Here are 10 strategies for a happy relationship with a highly sensitive person as a normal sensitive:

  1. Stay mainly natural and most straightforward in your behaviors and your communication.
  2. Do not say ‘you are too sensitive’, ‘you must harden’ because it is as if you are told to change the color of your eyes. If this were so simple, your partner would have already have done it. Observe his reaction and welcome it by taking your partner in your arms.
  3. Appreciate your partner’s sensitivity.
  4. Do not abuse his kindness, because even if your partner’s tolerance level is very high, he suffers every time you abuse, even if he does not show it; one day he will have reached his limits.
  5. Welcome emotions: For a highly sensitive person emotions can be felt like a wild storm and make him get lost. Take your partner in your arms. The warmth and love allow him to calm down very quickly.
  6. Allow him to express his emotions without judging and without taking them too personal; avoid telling your partner how he should feel.
  7. Accept the need for calm and solitude. This is vital for your partner.
  8. Communicate your feelings to your partner, even if it seems difficult. Your partner will often tend to feel your feelings even if you do not express them and if you are not honest this can be felt as insecurity to your partner.
  9. Do not use the joking, do not play games or psychological tests with him, do not tease unnecessarily because hypersensitive people are especially sensitive to this kind of behavior. This behavior will make them withdraw, not get them closer.
  10. Know that your partner feels everything much more intensely than you: pain,  emotions, sex.

Keep one thing in mind, your highly sensitive partner, once he gained trust in you and in the relationship and he feels loved and respected, he can deeply enrich your relationship, make it more creative, always interesting. Highly sensitive people often bring softness and sensuality in a couple and have the ability to be a source of creativity, full of sweetness. They can help you to live a healthier life by offering you relaxation and well-being.


Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful lifeJulia Noyel is the founder of the art of a different, happy, healthy & successful life and art of different, happy, healthy & successful employees. She is a highly sensitive & creative person, empath and certified coach & psychological advisor, consultant & trainer and expert in self-confidence, for highly sensitive and creative people, INFPs and empaths. Watch powerful free tools on her youtube channel. Her mission is to help as many people as possible to live a different, happy, healthy & successful life.

© Julia Noyel 2015. © Photo credit: www.alicedardun.com, Fotolia -© zagorodnaya. All rights reserved.