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Break up or stay – how to find the courage to end an unhappy relationship

Break up or stay – how to find the courage to end an unhappy relationship

Are you wondering, should I break up or stay – how do I find the courage to end an unhappy relationship?

 
by Julia Noyel
 
 
Are you wondering, should I break up or stay – how do I find the courage to end an unhappy relationship? Why would we leave someone who seems to be a good fit? You can speed up your decision by asking yourself the right questions. Let’s see how. In this article, I share with you 3 questions you might ask yourself to make the right decision and have the courage to leave.
 

How to know if it is better to stay or to separate

 
So how do you know if it’s better to stay or to separate? Deep inside you have a feeling or the thought that you made a mistake in your choice? This feeling or thought is worth digging into, I would say. What is important in my opinion is to ask the right questions and to listen to yourself.
 

Here are 3 questions that can help you see more clearly:

 
1) Why did I get involved with this person?
The first question you might want to aks yourself is Why did I get involved with this person? If your answer is “because it’s simple”, “because with her/him I can manage my emotions more easily”, “because she/he earns a good living”, “with him/her I don’t have too much strong emotions, it puts me under less stress”, or “he/she reminds me of one of my parents”, “he/she gives me stability” you basically try to compensate your lacks or weaknesses.
 
Ask yourself: why are my ease and comfort more important to me than true deep love and romance?
 
 
2) Why should I stay?
Ask yourself the question: why should I stay? If your answers are mainly motivated by factual or external reasons such as “He/she earns well”, “his/her parents are nice”, “the parents like me”, “he/she will suffer etc.”, “what will the others say”, “I don’t know how to tell him/her.”
 
Ask yourself: for what reason the material, the other, the parents etc. are they more important than you and the person you will truly love deeply?
 
 
3) Do I love my partner passionately?
 
There are several types of love: You can very well love your partner like a brother, a sister, like a friend but not like a romantic, passionate husband or wife.
 
Ask yourself: Do I desire my partner physically? It’s often how you look in each other’s eyes that makes the difference between a partner you really desire and not. Ask yourself the question: do I want to feel passionate and romantic for life, feel deep love and peace or do I want a platonic style relationship?
 
 
“Romance and true deep love are like food. It is an essential basic need in my life.
It is not a ‘nice-to-have’ but an absolute ‘must’.” – Julia Noyel
 
Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful lifeMy tip: use your discernment and be honest with yourself about your true needs. Me, personally being highly intuitive, a divine woman, INFP, and truly deeply romantic, I could not imagine being in a platonic relationship. If you are like me, I believe that with the person you really truly love deeply and who loves you deeply the passion will never stop, neither after one year nor after 2 or 3 years…or 33 years…
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Romance and true deep love are like food. It is an essential basic need in my life. It is not a ‘nice-to-have’ but an absolute ‘must’. Especially if you are an INFP, you are an idealist. Trust and believe in yourself. You have the power to get true deep love. Do never settle (again) for anything less!
 
Sometimes it can be wiser to walk away like a wise elephant and admit that you were wrong, you might have listened to others…or just made a  decision that was necessary at a given time to heal past issues and understand your true needs. Now give you the chance to achieve the relationship you really want, and that is your birthright. Because true deep love and romance, passion are your absolute birthright!
 
In my experience, the most effective way to free yourself from your fears is to release energetic blockages stuck negative emotions, regain your passion and spontaneity and open yourself to a new experience in love. In my program Get true deep love back, I share with you how powerful you are as you will take full responsibility as my program focuses on taking full responsibility, how to become empowered to transform your life and regain passion, dare to feel true love. Ready to succeed now in your love life? If so check out my program here.
 
 
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How to overcome emotional numbness All for Go(od)

How to overcome emotional numbness All for Go(od)

How to overcome emotional numbness All for Go(od)

by Julia Noyel

Are you struggling with numbness and wondering how to overcome it? You remember you once felt your body sensations fully, your emotions, your body and over the years something happened, you might not even be aware of what happened, but you suddenly feel numb? Feeling made you feel feminine at the same time, so numbness makes you feel like you have lost your feminity and grace? I can relate so much to this. In this article, I want to share with you some ways that helped me to solve it finally, to overcome emotional numbness all for go(od).

I had struggled for many years with emotional numbness not knowing how to overcome it and could finally, after many trials and errors, figure it out and manage to feel love, romance, passion, and my femininity and become graceful again.

 

Stop listening to others

First what was helpful to me in overcoming emotional numbness, was to stop listening to others. Be aware of helpful friends that might get you off track and distract you from feeling what you need to feel. When I solely listened to my inner team, god creator of all that is, and myself using my discernement things got better.

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful life“What definitely helped me during my journey to overcome numbness, is to stop searching for answers in books or elsewhere, to listen to myself and use my own innovative approach.” – Julia Noyel

 

Do your thing, listen to yourself.

This brings us to the next step: Do your thing, listen to yourself not others. What definitely helped me during my journey to overcome numbness, help me to feel again, was to stop searching for answers in books or elsewhere, to listen to myself, and use my own innovative approach.

Set out on the path

I believe once you decide to set out on the path and set the intention to move forward truly, this is what will happen. Being and staying loyal to those I truly deeply love was one of key success factors to stop feeling numb. This involves staying loyal to yourself. Once I stopped always searching for the new and decided on true deep love and romance, fully accepting and desiring to connect with my divine feminine this is what happened.

In my program Get true love back – Success on All Levels I share with you how I managed to overcome the above points in detail and share with you further challenges I had identified and how I overcame them to feel again. In my transformative coaching program, you will learn to use a step-by-step process and your own innovative approach to get true deep love back, to feel full(y). Be connected to YOU again fully. My program will teach you how beautiful you are (okay, so that’s a side benefit (-:). Ready to succeed in your love life now? Then take a look at my program here.

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You are highly sensitive, intuitive empath, psychic – deal with not feeling good enough?

You are highly sensitive, intuitive empath, psychic – deal with not feeling good enough?

You are highly sensitive, intuitive, empath, psychic – deal with not feeling good enough

You are highly sensitive, intuitive, empath, psychic. Are you wondering how to deal with not feeling good enough? Have you tried different solutions to overcome this? Maybe hypnosis, other therapies, heal your childhood wounds, stop comparing yourself, but still struggle with and still could not overcome ‘I feel not good enough’. In this article, I share with you my strategy, how I dealt with not feeling good enough, and what I did to overcome the feeling of not being good enough definitely.

The mainstream advice given out there when you do not feel good enough is : ‘you are (good) enough’.

When you tell yourself ‘You are good enough while one part in you believes you are not, you disrespect one part of you’.- Julia Noyel

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful lifeWorking as inner SUBSTANCE coach and expert in body-mind-soul communication, after having thought, searched, and reflected on this topic for the past ten years and tried different approaches (such as e.g., hypnosis, eft), I believe telling yourself you are good enough if one part in you believes he or she is not, is not the best to overcome this in sustainable ways.

 

I know, when you do not feel (good) enough there is a very specific and valid reason for it. From my experience, there might be one tiny part in you who believes he or she is not good enough. This part has a very very valid reason for believing it. When you tell yourself ‘You are good enough while one part in you believes you are not, you disrespect one part of you’.

Believing or telling yourself you are good enough while one part in you feels he or she is not, is emotional invalidation. If you emotionally invalidate this part in you, you in fact do exactly the same that other people do or did to you.

How to deal with not feeling good enough

I believe in overcoming this pattern of not feeling good enough or thinking you are not good enough definitely, especially if you are highly sensitive, intuitive, or empath, it is important to develop a deeper understanding. From my point of view, what is essential is, before helping your mind and body to change perspective, to understand the true reasons that might not be found in your childhood.

If you want to learn how to help yourself overcome that kind of issue definitely and you are willing to invest time and money in yourself, please feel free to check out my program, get true love back into your life – success on all levels. In this program, I will share with you the exact strategy I have used to overcome long-lasting repeating patterns such as I do not feel good enough, get true love back into my life and to succeed on all levels, set a solid foundation to live a happy, healthy and successful life on a sustainable basis. Be finally accepted and appreciated. Enough. Check out my program here.

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Twin flame basics – small multiplication table for twin flames

Twin flame basics – small multiplication table for twin flames by Julia Noyel

Twin flame basics – small multiplication table for twin flames

by Julia Noyel

Have you recently heard the term twin flame and need a pair of basics, a kind of small multiplication table for twin flames? My goal is to share a few basics with you here, or the most important terms in the context of twin flame or twin soul.

twin soul, twin flame, soul mate …

what is the difference? From my point of view and according to my current knowledge, twin flame, twin soul is the same. A soulmate is not necessarily your twin.

twin flame Process:

The twin flame process or twin soul journey is the process of how twin souls meet, separate and reunite. It extends over a certain period of time and leads to a positive development, the twin flame reunion.

Twin souls reunion or twin flame reunion:

Twin souls reunion or twin flame reunion is the moment when the twin souls meet again.

twin flame or twin soul separation:

This is the moment when both separate. This often happens because one of the twin flame partners runs away, the so-called runner.

Runner or runner:

Runner or runner is the term for the twin soul that runs away. From my experience, this can happen alternately in the course of the twin soul process.

Feeling clarifier and releaser:

The terms emotional clarifier (Gefühlsklärer) and letting go (Loslasser) stand for a proximity-distance dynamic. I especially could find those terms in German not in English.

The term emotional clarifier is the person who should get in touch with the feelings of love again. Releaser, the person who should let go. I cannot confirm these two terms of feeling clearer and releaser. For me, these two terms are not truly appropriate and not the best way to be successful in your twin flame journey or twin soul journey.

In my program Get True Love back – Success on All Levels I share with you what I have done to accelerate the twin soul journey or the twin soul process and to bring true deep love back into my life; In my program, you will learn how to master the soulmate process. Ready to be successful in your love life now and to invest time and money in yourself? Then take a look at my program here.

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Twin flame journey – how can I speed up the Twin flame reunion

Twin flame journey – how can I speed up the Twin flame reunion by Julia Noyel

 

Twin flame journey how can I speed up the Twin flame reunion

by Julia Noyel

Are you on a twin flame journey and wondering, ‘how can I speed up the twin flame reunion’? So you don’t have ten years to wait for your twin flame (runner) to come back? Your time is absolutely precious, and if you want to have children and you’re 40 or passed 40 years, you have to move fast.

“With a strategy and the right skills, you can accelerate the twin flame journey.” – Julia Noyel

When I realized that I was on a twin flame journey, I immediately started solving it. In my experience, after intense work, the twin flame journey is a logical step-by-step process (once you understand it (-:) and well-defined. With a strategy, the right skills, and an understanding of what steps to solve, intense work, you can accelerate your twin flame journey and do it alone (without initial support from your twin flame) and bring your ex back into your life.

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful life
“When I realized that I was on a Twin flame journey,
I immediately started working on myself.” – Julia Noyel

In my experience and intensive work, the Twin flame journey is a logical process (once you have understood it (-:) and precisely defined.

Twin flame journey how can I speed up the Twin flame reunion

Of course, it always depends on which phase you are in, but in general, from my experience, it is essential to work on the following points:

Overcome your difficulties and blockages

Since your twin flame comes back into your life when you find perfection, it is essential to work on your longstanding difficulties and problems as well as blockages on all levels and finally solve them. For example, it can be numbness or emotional instability, financial or sexual difficulties, or finding a job that really fulfills you. Once you have overcome your longstanding repetitive patterns, your twin flame will also return. This leads us to the next important point.

Calm and inner peace

I think finding calm and inner peace is one of the keys to reclaiming your twin flame.

Work on your communication

Working on your communication is very helpful. It is important to learn to communicate at all levels. Maybe you think I already do: I already know Nonviolent Communication, Emotional Intelligence, etc… If that’s the case, then great, then it’s important to also work on a subconscious level to become the absolute master communicator and also on yourself, who You really are and express it fully and successfully.

Overcoming powerlessness and regaining control

It is important to regain control of your life and to overcome powerlessness. Especially if your twin flame has run away, it would be important to understand that you create your future. With a strategy, the right skills and understanding of the steps to be taken, and hard work on your part, you can accelerate the twin flame journey and do it alone (without initial support from your twin flame) and successfully reunite with your twin flame.

In my program Get True Love back – Success on All Levels, I share with you what I have done to accelerate the twin flame journey and to bring true deep love back into my life; In my program, I have summarized all my wisdom, knowledge, and expert advice (I am a certified psychological advisor & certified coach, consultant, and trainer) in an empowering, inspiring playful and efficient way. By the way, to make you succeed, I only use the most innovative & efficient tools and learning & development strategies I have acquired and tested successfully as a corporate coach, consultant, and business school teacher working for the most reputed & mindful actors in this field, having worked many years for the luxury, retail, service, biotech and IT sector.

In my program, you will learn how powerful you are. ‘Ready to be successful in your love life now and invest time and money in yourself? Then take a look at my program here.

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