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Highly sensitive and empath – How to become woman number one in your relationship

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Highly sensitive and empath – How to become woman number one in your relationship

by Julia Noyel

Do you long for a relationship where you have an important place? You are highly sensitive and empath and wonder how to become woman number one in your relationship? Are you tired of always ending up behind someone else? After your partner’s needs, after his mother, after his sister, after his work, boss, or even after another woman? Your man is Galant with other women while treating you like a carpet! Gosh, what an icky sad feeling. I can imagine how you might feel. In this article, I will share with you some reasons why you are not number 1 and how you can become it.

What’s stopping you from being woman #1 in your relationship?

After my observations and my own experience, begging for a little time or getting angry at THE other people and blaming them for the situation is not the best and most efficient. Stop it! (-:

‘Here is my secret to becoming number 1 in your relationship. The solution is in you,
in your attitude, your mindset, and your vibrations!’ – Julia Noyel

 

Here is the secret to becoming number one in your relationship

I want to share with you a secret. You can be woman number 1 in your relationship! Now! Yes, you can be number one in your relationship here and now!

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful lifeHere is my secret to becoming number 1 in your relationship. The solution is in you, in your attitude, your mindset, and your vibrations!

(1) The first step is to take full responsibility for what happened. Stop blaming others and understand that what happened was what you have attracted and created! In fact, understand what in you puts your partner’s, his mother’s, his sister’s, his job, his boss’s, and maybe even another woman’s needs after your own!

(2) Then consciously decide what you truly want, wish for, and claim your space from this day forward!

(3) Then it is a matter of changing your vibrations and thoughts. Once you have changed your vibrations and thoughts, your attitude will change, and so will your man’s attitude.

You don’t have to become less sensitive or less creative to do this! Quite the opposite! You will be a beautiful sensual and creative and powerful woman while playing an important role in your life and claiming your place alongside YOUR man. You will feel more important, more valuable, and more secure than ever before. The moment I found the solution, my life changed 180 degrees.

Always remember YOU ARE POWERFUL. Believe in yourself and your capacity to change things. In my program ‘get true deep love back-success on all levels’, I will show you how to get your power back and become woman number 1 FOREVER. I will teach you how to develop and use your wisdom. You will become determined and assertive, and learn how to speak your mind to get what you want: respect, love, and romance. Discover my program here.

 

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Break up or stay – how to find the courage to end an unhappy relationship

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Break up or stay – how to find the courage to end an unhappy relationship

Are you wondering, should I break up or stay – how do I find the courage to end an unhappy relationship?

 
by Julia Noyel
 
 
Are you wondering, should I break up or stay – how do I find the courage to end an unhappy relationship? Why would we leave someone who seems to be a good fit? You can speed up your decision by asking yourself the right questions. Let’s see how. In this article, I share with you 3 questions you might ask yourself to make the right decision and have the courage to leave.
 

How to know if it is better to stay or to separate

 
So how do you know if it’s better to stay or to separate? Deep inside you have a feeling or the thought that you made a mistake in your choice? This feeling or thought is worth digging into, I would say. What is important in my opinion is to ask the right questions and to listen to yourself.
 

Here are 3 questions that can help you see more clearly:

 
1) Why did I get involved with this person?
The first question you might want to aks yourself is Why did I get involved with this person? If your answer is “because it’s simple”, “because with her/him I can manage my emotions more easily”, “because she/he earns a good living”, “with him/her I don’t have too much strong emotions, it puts me under less stress”, or “he/she reminds me of one of my parents”, “he/she gives me stability” you basically try to compensate your lacks or weaknesses.
 
Ask yourself: why are my ease and comfort more important to me than true deep love and romance?
 
 
2) Why should I stay?
Ask yourself the question: why should I stay? If your answers are mainly motivated by factual or external reasons such as “He/she earns well”, “his/her parents are nice”, “the parents like me”, “he/she will suffer etc.”, “what will the others say”, “I don’t know how to tell him/her.”
 
Ask yourself: for what reason the material, the other, the parents etc. are they more important than you and the person you will truly love deeply?
 
 
3) Do I love my partner passionately?
 
There are several types of love: You can very well love your partner like a brother, a sister, like a friend but not like a romantic, passionate, deep loving and truly dedicated and committed husband or wife.
 
Ask yourself: Do I desire my partner deeply? It’s often how you look in each other’s eyes and what you feel, as well as a deep inner knowing that makes the difference between a partner you really desire and truly love and not. Ask yourself the question: do I want to feel passionate and romantic for life, feel deep love and peace or do I want a platonic style relationship?
 
 
“Romance and true deep love are for me like food. It
is not a ‘nice-to-have’ but natural.” – Julia Noyel
 
Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful lifeMy tip: use your discernment and be honest with yourself about your true needs. Me, personally being highly intuitive, a divine woman, and truly deeply romantic, I could not imagine being in a platonic relationship. If you are like me, I believe that with the person you really truly love deeply and who loves you deeply, the passion will never stop, neither after one year nor after 2 or 3 years…or 33 years…
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Romance and true deep love are like food for me. It is an essential and natural basic element in my life. It is not a ‘nice-to-have’ but natural, what I give and respect. Especially if you are an INFP, you are an idealist. Trust and believe in yourself. You have the power to get true deep love and romance. Do never settle (again) for anything less!
 
Sometimes it can be wiser to walk away like a wise elephant and admit that you were wrong, you might have listened to others…or just made a decision that was necessary at a given time to heal past issues and understand your true needs. Now give you the chance to achieve the relationship you really want, and that is your birthright. Because true deep love and romance, passion are your absolute birthright!
 
In my experience, the most effective way to free yourself from your fears is to release energetic blockages and stuck past emotions, regain your passion, feel and give love and spontaneity and allow yourself a new experience in love with the person you truly deeply love. In my program Get true deep love back, I share with you how powerful you are as you will take full responsibility as my program focuses on taking full responsibility, how to become empowered to transform your life and regain passion, dare to feel true love. Ready to succeed now in your love life? If so check out my program here.
 
 
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How to overcome emotional numbness All for Go(od)

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How to overcome emotional numbness All for Go(od)

How to overcome emotional numbness All for Go(od)

by Julia Noyel

Are you struggling with numbness and wondering how to overcome it? You remember you once felt your body sensations fully, your emotions, your body and over the years something happened, you might not even be aware of what happened, but you suddenly feel numb? Feeling made you feel feminine at the same time, so numbness makes you feel like you have lost your feminity and grace? I can relate so much to this. In this article, I want to share with you some ways that helped me to solve it finally, to overcome emotional numbness all for go(od).

I had struggled for many years with emotional numbness not knowing how to overcome it and could finally, after many trials and errors, figure it out and manage to feel love, romance, passion, and my femininity and become graceful again.

 

Stop listening to others

First what was helpful to me in overcoming emotional numbness, was to stop listening to others. Be aware of helpful friends that might get you off track and distract you from feeling what you need to feel. When I solely listened to my inner team, god creator of all that is, and myself using my discernement things got better.

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful life“What definitely helped me during my journey to overcome numbness, is to stop searching for answers in books or elsewhere, to listen to myself and use my own innovative approach.” – Julia Noyel

 

Do your thing, listen to yourself.

This brings us to the next step: Do your thing, listen to yourself not others. What definitely helped me during my journey to overcome numbness, help me to feel again, was to stop searching for answers in books or elsewhere, to listen to myself, and use my own innovative approach.

Set out on the path

I believe once you decide to set out on the path and set the intention to move forward truly, this is what will happen. Being and staying loyal to those I truly deeply love was one of key success factors to stop feeling numb. This involves staying loyal to yourself. Once I stopped always searching for the new and decided on true deep love and romance, fully accepting and desiring to connect with my divine feminine this is what happened.

In my program Get true love back – Success on All Levels I share with you how I managed to overcome the above points in detail and share with you further challenges I had identified and how I overcame them to feel again. In my transformative coaching program, you will learn to use a step-by-step process and your own innovative approach to get true deep love back, to feel full(y). Be connected to YOU again fully. My program will teach you how beautiful you are (okay, so that’s a side benefit (-:). Ready to succeed in your love life now? Then take a look at my program here.

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You are highly sensitive, intuitive empath, psychic – deal with not feeling good enough?

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You are highly sensitive, intuitive empath, psychic – deal with not feeling good enough?

You are highly sensitive, intuitive, empath, psychic – deal with not feeling good enough

You are highly sensitive, intuitive, empath, psychic. Are you wondering how to deal with not feeling good enough? Have you tried different solutions to overcome this? Maybe hypnosis, other therapies, heal your childhood wounds, stop comparing yourself, wondering how to overcome it now all for good. In this article, I share with you my strategy, how I dealt with not feeling good enough, and what I did to overcome the feeling of not being good enough definitely.

For me the mainstream advice given out there ‘when you do not feel good enough, tell yourself ‘you are (good) enough,’ did not work.

I believe when you tell yourself ‘You are good enough’ while one part in you believes you are not, you disrespect one part of you’.- Julia Noyel

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful lifeWorking as inner SUBSTANCE coach and expert in body-mind-soul communication, after having thought, searched, and reflected on this topic for the past ten years and tried different approaches (such as e.g., hypnosis, eft), I believe telling yourself you are good enough if one part in you believes he or she is not, is not the best to overcome this in sustainable ways.

 

I know, when you do not feel (good) enough, there is a very specific and valid reason for it. From my experience, there might be one tiny part in you who believes he or she is not good enough. This part has a very very valid reason for believing it. When you tell yourself, ‘You are good enough while one part in you believes you are not, you disrespect one part of you’.

Believing or telling yourself you are good enough while one part of you feels he or she is not, is, according to me, emotional invalidation. If you emotionally invalidate this part in you, you, in fact, do exactly the same that other people do or did to you.

How to deal with not feeling good enough

For me, to overcome this pattern of not feeling or thinking good enough definitely, especially as a highly sensitive, intuitive, or empath, what was helpful was to develop a deeper understanding and my wisdom. What worked for me was before helping my body, mind, and soul to change perspective, to understand the true reasons. And then simply do the work and put the effort in until I felt good enough.

If you are striving for excellence and true deep love in your life, want to learn how to help yourself overcome that kind of issue definitely and you are willing to invest time and money in yourself, please feel free to check out my program, get true love back into your life – success on all levels. In this program, I will share with you the exact strategy I have used to overcome long-lasting repeating patterns such as I do not feel good enough, get true love back into my life and to succeed on all levels, set a solid foundation to live a happy, healthy and successful life on a sustainable basis. Be finally accepted and appreciated. Enough. Check out my program here.

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Twin flame basics – small multiplication table for twin flames

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Twin flame basics – small multiplication table for twin flames by Julia Noyel

Twin flame basics – small multiplication table for twin flames

by Julia Noyel

Have you recently heard the term twin flame and need a pair of basics, a kind of small multiplication table for twin flames? My goal is to share a few basics with you here, or the most important terms in the context of twin flame or twin soul.

twin soul, twin flame, soul mate …

what is the difference? From my point of view and according to my current knowledge, twin flame, twin soul is the same. A soulmate is not necessarily your twin.

twin flame Process:

The twin flame process or twin soul journey is the process of how twin souls meet, separate and reunite. It extends over a certain period of time and leads to a positive development, the twin flame reunion.

Twin souls reunion or twin flame reunion:

Twin souls reunion or twin flame reunion is the moment when the twin souls meet again.

Twin flame or twin soul separation:

This is the moment when both separate. This often happens because one of the twin flame partners runs away, the so-called runner.

Runner runner:

Runner is the term for the twin soul that runs away. From my experience, this can happen alternately in the course of the twin soul journey.

Feeling clarifier and releaser:

The terms emotional clarifier (Gefühlsklärer) and letting go (Loslasser) stand for a proximity-distance dynamic. I especially could find those terms in German not in English. Emotional clarifier is the person who should get in touch with the feelings of love again. Releaser, the person who should let go.

To me thinking in labels like runner or clarifier, or releaser is not the best way to be successful in your twin flame journey or twin soul journey. To solve it and speed up reunion, it is helpful to get a deep understanding about the dynamic and know the steps you need to take to resolve it.

In my program Get True Love back – Success on All Levels I share with you what I have done to accelerate the twin soul journey or the twin soul process and to bring true deep love back into my life; In my program, you will learn how to master the twin soul journey to speed up reunion. Ready to be successful in your love life now and to invest time and money in what matters most to you? Then take a look at my program here.

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