by Julia Noyel

Do you feel annoyed because you are struggling with handling your jealousy? Your problem: jealousy comes up so quickly, catches you by surprise and gets out of control! You wonder what the secret is and why others manage to stay calm and in control so well? When are you going to get a handle on this jealousy? You are frustrated. In this article, I will share with you my secret how to overcome jealousy definitely.

It is often said that you need to learn tools to better handle jealousy situations. Sorry, I do not believe in this!
I believe many people who suffer from this jealousy monster have a wrong idea about how to control jealousy and better manage their emotions. When jealousy surprises them, they want to control and steer and try to follow advice on how to better handle their emotions. However, as I believe what is important is to ask yourself the right questions. And the right question is not how to handle your jealousy but ‘why do I believe true deep love is allowing to flirt and cheat ?’

‘You can feel safe, stop your jealousy and have a relationship in which you are truly loved and respected.’ – Julia Noyel

What really prevents you from getting rid of jealousy

Has your partner cheated on you in the past, and you wonder how to trust him or her again? It seems that some couples manage to overcome this, but you wonder how? Even if you have never been cheated on, jealousy can make your days difficult, and you may begin to doubt yourself. Are you too jealous?

Are you annoyed by your jealousy and your emotional volcanoes, your emotional outbursts? From this feeling of having to control everything? Stop wanting to be afraid all the time!

You can feel safe, stop your jealousy and have a relationship in which you are truly loved and respected.

So first I want to share a little secret with you: In my experience, if you are jealous, there is a truly valid reason for it. I believe, the problem is not where you think it is. If others are so good at staying calm and in control, it’s because they might not feel what’s going on at the energetic level or /and they might have values that are not in alignment with true deep love and romance what is probably your value if you are here on my webpage.

So listen to your inner voice and take yourself seriously. If your partner is sharing intimate or sexual energies, emotions or actions with other people he or she is exceeding your boundaries and rules no matter he or she is aware or not of it.

The solution to get rid of your jealousy

First, I believe, if you want to get rid of jealousy permanently, it is important to get out of the victim position. Take full responsibility for what you attract into your life. By saying this, I am not excusing what your partner is doing, nor am I saying that what your partner is doing is your imagination. Your partner is 100 % responsible for cheating (aware or not aware) and you 100% for attracting this into your life.

From my experience, if you attract these situations, it is because there is something in you that attracts it. It could be your unconscious thoughts or your energetic vibrations.

You don’t have to suffer from jealousy all your life. Once you understand how to free yourself from the source of the problem, you can stop looking for tools to better manage your jealousy, because you will no longer feel jealous because there will be no more reason for it. Your partner will change his or her behavior.

From my experience, it is much more pleasant and gives you your power back once you start to work on yourself than to spend your time worrying about your partner.

In my program ‘get true love back – success on all levels’, I will share with you how to stop unhealthy thought patterns, set healthy boundaries, and develop your energetic awareness to break the pattern. In this program, I will show you how to permanently and sustainably free yourself from this jealousy and feel more confident and in control. You will set out on the path towards a happy, healthy, and successful life, with true life romance and lifelong loyalty and integrity, and fidelity.

For more information on my program ‘get true love back – success on all levels’, click here.

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Highly sensitive and empath – How to become woman number one in your relationship

by Julia Noyel

Do you long for a relationship where you have an important place? You are highly sensitive and empath and wonder how to become woman number one in your relationship? Are you tired of always ending up behind someone else? After your partner’s needs, after his mother, after his sister, after his work, boss, or even after another woman? Your man is Galant with other women while treating you like a carpet! Gosh, what an icky sad feeling. I can imagine how you might feel. In this article, I will share with you some reasons why you are not number 1 and how you can become it.

What’s stopping you from being woman #1 in your relationship?

After my observations and my own experience, begging for a little time or getting angry at THE other people and blaming them for the situation is not the best and most efficient. Stop it! (-:

‘Here is my secret to becoming number 1 in your relationship. The solution is in you,
in your attitude, your mindset, and your vibrations!’ – Julia Noyel

Here is the secret to becoming number one in your relationship

I want to share with you a secret. You can be woman number 1 in your relationship! Now! Yes, you can be number one in your relationship here and now!

Here is my secret to becoming number 1 in your relationship. The solution is in you, in your attitude, your mindset, and your vibrations!

(1) The first step is to take full responsibility for what happened. Stop blaming others and understand that what happened was what you have attracted and created! In fact, understand what in you puts your partner’s, his mother’s, his sister’s, his job, his boss’s, and maybe even another woman’s needs after your own!

(2) Then consciously decide what you truly want, wish for, and claim your space from this day forward!

(3) Then it is a matter of changing your vibrations and thoughts. Once you have changed your vibrations and thoughts, your attitude will change, and so will your man’s attitude.

You don’t have to become less sensitive or less creative to do this! Quite the opposite! You will be a beautiful sensual and creative and powerful woman while playing an important role in your life and claiming your place alongside YOUR man. You will feel more important, more valuable, and more secure than ever before. The moment I found the solution, my life changed 180 degrees.

Always remember YOU ARE POWERFUL. Believe in yourself and your capacity to change things. In my program ‘get true deep love back-success on all levels’, I will show you how to get your power back and become woman number 1 FOREVER. I will teach you how to develop and use your wisdom. You will become determined and assertive, and learn how to speak your mind to get what you want: respect, love, and romance. Discover my program here.

“Romance and true deep love are for me like food. It
is not a ‘nice-to-have’ but natural.” – Julia Noyel

 

My tip: use your discernment and be honest with yourself about your true needs. Me, personally being highly intuitive, a divine woman, and truly deeply romantic, I could not imagine being in a platonic relationship. If you are like me, I believe that with the person you really truly love deeply and who loves you deeply, the passion will never stop, neither after one year nor after 2 or 3 years…or 33 years…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Romance and true deep love are like food for me. It is an essential and natural basic element in my life. It is not a ‘nice-to-have’ but natural, what I give and respect. Especially if you are an INFP, you are an idealist. Trust and believe in yourself. You have the power to get true deep love and romance. Do never settle (again) for anything less!

 

Sometimes it can be wiser to walk away like a wise elephant and admit that you were wrong, you might have listened to others…or just made a decision that was necessary at a given time to heal past issues and understand your true needs. Now give you the chance to achieve the relationship you really want, and that is your birthright. Because true deep love and romance, passion are your absolute birthright!

 

In my experience, the most effective way to free yourself from your fears is to release energetic blockages and stuck past emotions, regain your passion, feel and give love and spontaneity and allow yourself a new experience in love with the person you truly deeply love. In my program Get true deep love back, I share with you how powerful you are as you will take full responsibility as my program focuses on taking full responsibility, how to become empowered to transform your life and regain passion, dare to feel true love. Ready to succeed now in your love life? If so check out my program here.

 

 

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