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How to overcome jealousy and be treated as the one forever

How to overcome jealousy and be treated as the one forever

 

by Julia Noyel

Do you feel annoyed because you are struggling with handling your jealousy? Your problem: jealousy comes up so quickly, catches you by surprise and gets out of control! You wonder what the secret is and why others manage to stay calm and in control so well? When are you going to get a handle on this jealousy? You are frustrated. In this article, I will share with you my secret how to overcome jealousy definitely.

It is often said that you need to learn tools to better handle jealousy situations. Sorry, I do not believe in this!
I believe many people who suffer from this jealousy monster have a wrong idea about how to control jealousy and better manage their emotions. When jealousy surprises them, they want to control and steer and try to follow advice on how to better handle their emotions. However, as I believe what is important is to ask yourself the right questions. And the right question is not how to handle your jealousy but ‘why do I believe true deep love is allowing to flirt and cheat ?’

‘You can feel safe, stop your jealousy and have a relationship in which you are truly loved and respected.’ – Julia Noyel

What really prevents you from getting rid of jealousy

Has your partner cheated on you in the past, and you wonder how to trust him or her again? It seems that some couples manage to overcome this, but you wonder how? Even if you have never been cheated on, jealousy can make your days difficult, and you may begin to doubt yourself. Are you too jealous?

Are you annoyed by your jealousy and your emotional volcanoes, your emotional outbursts? From this feeling of having to control everything? Stop wanting to be afraid all the time!

You can feel safe, stop your jealousy and have a relationship in which you are truly loved and respected.

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful lifeSo first I want to share a little secret with you: In my experience, if you are jealous, there is a truly valid reason for it. I believe, the problem is not where you think it is. If others are so good at staying calm and in control, it’s because they might not feel what’s going on at the energetic level or /and they might have values that are not in alignment with true deep love and romance what is probably your value if you are here on my webpage.

So listen to your inner voice and take yourself seriously. If your partner is sharing intimate or sexual energies, emotions or actions with other people he or she is exceeding your boundaries and rules no matter he or she is aware or not of it.

The solution to get rid of your jealousy

First, I believe, if you want to get rid of jealousy permanently, it is important to get out of the victim position. Take full responsibility for what you attract into your life. By saying this, I am not excusing what your partner is doing, nor am I saying that what your partner is doing is your imagination. Your partner is 100 % responsible for cheating (aware or not aware) and you 100% for attracting this into your life.

From my experience, if you attract these situations, it is because there is something in you that attracts it. It could be your unconscious thoughts or your energetic vibrations.

You don’t have to suffer from jealousy all your life. Once you understand how to free yourself from the source of the problem, you can stop looking for tools to better manage your jealousy, because you will no longer feel jealous because there will be no more reason for it. Your partner will change his or her behavior.

From my experience, it is much more pleasant and gives you your power back once you start to work on yourself than to spend your time worrying about your partner.

In my program ‘get true love back – success on all levels’, I will share with you how to stop unhealthy thought patterns, set healthy boundaries, and develop your energetic awareness to break the pattern. In this program, I will show you how to permanently and sustainably free yourself from this jealousy and feel more confident and in control. You will set out on the path towards a happy, healthy, and successful life, with true life romance and lifelong loyalty and integrity, and fidelity.

For more information on my program ‘get true love back – success on all levels’, click here.

© Julia Noyel 2016 update 2022. All rights reserved. Photo: Fotolia Antonioguillem, profile picture www.alicedardun.com, Font Sam Parrett

 

Why am I always attracting the wrong partner

Why am I always attracting the wrong partner

Why am I always attracting the wrong partner

by Julia Noyel

You are wondering why you always attract the wrong partner? Maybe you have already read a bunch of articles and always came through the same kind of advice: your shadow sides, you feel unworthy, lack self-esteem, and are too perfectionistic to name only a few… In this article, I will share with you my personal experience and solutions.


Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful lifeHaving known this pattern of attracting the wrong partner in the past and after having overcome the pattern successfully, I cannot confirm the above-mentioned reasons. During my own journey I have often asked myself the question, “Why am I always attracting the wrong partner?”, and what I found out when I started to work on my project to succeed in my love life finally, was far from the above-mentioned reasons or what was largely said on the internet.

Do you have the impression of having been misled and tried different approaches and tools (such as e.g. hypnosis working on your self-esteem, psychotherapy, mind tools, eft, communication training), always hoping to finally definitely solve it? After trial and error and not getting the quick fix, you finished getting the famous onion and layers explanation when finally the quick fix did not come as expected.

‘Today I know no matter what the issue is I can solve it.’- Julia Noyel

When I arrived at this point, I finally asked myself the question ‘how to fix it all for good’. So I believe this question is much more efficient if you want to solve it. Honestly, lifelong learning and discovering is nice and inspiring but for me came a moment, where I thought, now I want to stop learning and live, enjoy my life fully with the man of my life and children, knowing that what I share with my clients definitely works. So I built myself a strategy to do a complete reset.

The outcome…it was a challenging project but at least I was successful. My life changed for the better in all areas of my life. The best experience for me was, I did not feel the need to try out any further approaches and go through the trial and error over and over again.

Today I know no matter what the issue is I can solve it. And that is a good thing. The feeling of autonomy and power, clarity and direction. Whereas before I felt like swimming in the ocean without any direction, I know where I go. I have a strategy and SUBSTANCE. In my 10-month program to get true love back, and success on all levels, I will share with you the strategy and approach I have used and will help you to develop your own innovative approach, so you get clarity and direction and can solve it on your own, as I did. Please feel free to check out my program here.

© Julia Noyel 2022. All rights reserved. Photo: pixabay, profile picture www.alicedardun.com, Font Sam Parrett

How to manifest love fast – reunite with twin flame

How to manifest love fast – reunite with twin flame

How to manifest love fast – reunite with twin flame

by Julia Noyel

You wanna manifest true love back fast and reunite with your twin flame? Have you tried to speed up the twin flame reunion? I understand how you might feel. It can be really frustrating wanting to manifest true love and reunite with your twin flame, and things move not as quickly as you wish. I am so glad you are here. I am truth and deep love seeker and whereas it was easy for me to manifest within 24 hours for years, this suddenly changed.


If you ask yourself how you can manifest quickly again, I want to share with you in this article four insights that helped me. If you have been drawn intuitively to this article, there might be some messages for you.

“What is important from my experience is to believe in the possibility of movement and change.” – Julia Noyel

So how to manifest love fast and reunite with twin flame? From my experience, it is essential to work on the following points:

Believe in the possibility of movement

What is important from my experience is to believe in the possibility of movement and change. Having faith and believe will help you to manifest quickly.

Stop making wishes and decide you are powerful.

Change your mindset and attitude. If you are here today and landed on my website, you might wanna change your mindset and attitude from making wishes to deciding you are powerful.

Being truly determined will make things happen.

Another point I believe is helpful is to be truly determined to manifest and reunite. Identify underlying obstacles and release them.

Use your wisdom

The fourth secret I wanna share is the importance of your wisdom. Your wisdom will definitely help to manifest love and reunite with your twin flame. By the way, the number four is often considered as a number of reunion. Twin flame reunion numbers as 11:11, and 2:2 they all give four. So what do I mean by wisdom?

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful lifeMy personal definition of wisdom is understanding life from a higher perspective. Understand what power you truly have. That means not being limited to what is taught in this world, science but making good judgment of your intuitive insights and understanding who god creator of all that is TRULY is and what true love TRULY means. In other words, understand a deeper truth, one that makes you a wise leader and creator of a happy, healthy, and successful life.

In my program ‘get true love back’, I have summarized all my wisdom and knowledge as well as the strategy I have used to manifest true deep love and speed up reunion. You will not only learn to build your strategy to reach your goals but also how to keep love and how to create a solid foundation for a happy, healthy, and successful relationship, family, job, and life on a sustainable basis. Please feel free to check out my program here.

© Julia Noyel 2022. All rights reserved. Photo: VistaCreate, profile picture www.alicedardun.com, Font Sam Parrett

Highly sensitive and empath – How to become woman number one in your relationship

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Highly sensitive and empath – How to become woman number one in your relationship

by Julia Noyel

Do you long for a relationship where you have an important place? You are highly sensitive and empath and wonder how to become woman number one in your relationship? Are you tired of always ending up behind someone else? After your partner’s needs, after his mother, after his sister, after his work, boss, or even after another woman? Your man is Galant with other women while treating you like a carpet! Gosh, what an icky sad feeling. I can imagine how you might feel. In this article, I will share with you some reasons why you are not number 1 and how you can become it.

What’s stopping you from being woman #1 in your relationship?

After my observations and my own experience, most highly sensitive and empathic women have the wrong idea about how to become number 1 in a relationship. What is about you? Do you beg for a little time when your man’s work or other people take up the majority of the time in his life? Do you get angry at THE other people and blame them for the situation? Stop it!

‘Here is my secret to becoming number 1 in your relationship. The solution is in you,
in your attitude, your mindset, and your vibrations!’ – Julia Noyel

Here is the secret to becoming number one in your relationship

I want to share with you a secret. You can be woman number 1 in your relationship! Now! Yes, you can be number one in your relationship here and now!

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful lifeHere is my secret to becoming number 1 in your relationship. The solution is in you, in your attitude, your mindset, and your vibrations!

(1) The first step is to take full responsibility for what happened. Stop blaming others and understand that what happened was what you have attracted and created! In fact, one part in you put your partner’s, his mother’s, his sister’s, his job, his boss’s, and maybe even another woman’s needs after your own!

(2) Then consciously decide what you truly want, wish for, and claim your space from this day forward!

(3) Then it is a matter of changing your vibrations. Once you have changed your vibrations, your attitude will change and so will your man’s attitude.

You don’t have to become less sensitive or less creative to do this! Quite the opposite! You will be a beautiful sensual and creative and powerful woman while playing an important role in your life and claiming your place alongside YOUR man. You will feel more important, more valuable, and more secure than ever before. The moment I found the solution, my life changed 180 degrees.

Always remember YOU ARE POWERFUL. Believe in yourself and your capacity to change things. In my program ‘get true deep love back-success on all levels’, I will show you how to get your power back and become woman number 1 FOREVER. I will teach you how to develop and use your wisdom. You will become determined and assertive, and learn how to speak your mind to get what you want: respect, love, and romance. Discover my program here.

Break up or stay – how to find the courage to end an unhappy relationship

Break up or stay – how to find the courage to end an unhappy relationship

Are you wondering, should I break up or stay – how do I find the courage to end an unhappy relationship?

 
by Julia Noyel
 
 
Are you wondering, should I break up or stay – how do I find the courage to end an unhappy relationship? Why would we leave someone who seems to be a good fit? You can speed up your decision by asking yourself the right questions. Let’s see how. In this article, I share with you 3 questions you might ask yourself to make the right decision and have the courage to leave.
 

How to know if it is better to stay or to separate

 
So how do you know if it’s better to stay or to separate? Deep inside you have a feeling or the thought that you made a mistake in your choice? This feeling or thought is worth digging into, I would say. What is important in my opinion is to ask the right questions and to listen to yourself.
 

Here are 3 questions that can help you see more clearly:

 
1) Why did I get involved with this person?
The first question you might want to aks yourself is Why did I get involved with this person? If your answer is “because it’s simple”, “because with her/him I can manage my emotions more easily”, “because she/he earns a good living”, “with him/her I don’t have too much strong emotions, it puts me under less stress”, or “he/she reminds me of one of my parents”, “he/she gives me stability” you basically try to compensate your lacks or weaknesses.
 
Ask yourself: why are my ease and comfort more important to me than true deep love and romance?
 
 
2) Why should I stay?
Ask yourself the question: why should I stay? If your answers are mainly motivated by factual or external reasons such as “He/she earns well”, “his/her parents are nice”, “the parents like me”, “he/she will suffer etc.”, “what will the others say”, “I don’t know how to tell him/her.”
 
Ask yourself: for what reason the material, the other, the parents etc. are they more important than you and the person you will truly love deeply?
 
 
3) Do I love my partner passionately?
 
There are several types of love: You can very well love your partner like a brother, a sister, like a friend but not like a romantic, passionate husband or wife.
 
Ask yourself: Do I desire my partner physically? It’s often how you look in each other’s eyes that makes the difference between a partner you really desire and not. Ask yourself the question: do I want to feel passionate and romantic for life, feel deep love and peace or do I want a platonic style relationship?
 
 
“Romance and true deep love are like food. It is an essential basic need in my life.
It is not a ‘nice-to-have’ but an absolute ‘must’.” – Julia Noyel
 
Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful lifeMy tip: use your discernment and be honest with yourself about your true needs. Me, personally being highly intuitive, a divine woman, INFP, and truly deeply romantic, I could not imagine being in a platonic relationship. If you are like me, I believe that with the person you really truly love deeply and who loves you deeply the passion will never stop, neither after one year nor after 2 or 3 years…or 33 years…
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Romance and true deep love are like food. It is an essential basic need in my life. It is not a ‘nice-to-have’ but an absolute ‘must’. Especially if you are an INFP, you are an idealist. Trust and believe in yourself. You have the power to get true deep love. Do never settle (again) for anything less!
 
Sometimes it can be wiser to walk away like a wise elephant and admit that you were wrong, you might have listened to others…or just made a  decision that was necessary at a given time to heal past issues and understand your true needs. Now give you the chance to achieve the relationship you really want, and that is your birthright. Because true deep love and romance, passion are your absolute birthright!
 
In my experience, the most effective way to free yourself from your fears is to release energetic blockages stuck negative emotions, regain your passion and spontaneity and open yourself to a new experience in love. In my program Get true deep love back, I share with you how powerful you are as you will take full responsibility as my program focuses on taking full responsibility, how to become empowered to transform your life and regain passion, dare to feel true love. Ready to succeed now in your love life? If so check out my program here.
 
 
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