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Change your life successfully interview with Julia Noyel

Change your life successfully – interview with julia noyel

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You want to change something but you do not know how?  Imagine how you will feel when you wake up every morning, feeling happy to start your day, living at a place you love, having fulfilled your deepest wishes. It is not too late.

Change your life – A dream?

Julia NOYEL, Coach, Consultant and Trainer and author of the book, black sheep live better: how to realize your dream life step by step, shares in this interview how she realized a life that suits her and makes her happy.

Mrs Noyel in your book “Black sheep live better,“ that was published in first in German in 2013,published in November 2014 in English you say ‚black sheep are happier‘. In our society a black sheep has a negative connotation. Why did you choose this title for your book and what do you mean?

Julia Noyel: I just wanted to change this way of seeing things, turn this very negative image that society has of people who dare to be different. Being highly sensitive and creative, very intuitive I always felt different and wanted to realize my own life. My goal was to put the black sheep in a more positive light. People who differ from the great mass, who dare to realize their ideal life are not necessarily negative,  strange. For me it means the opposite. They have courage, they live a life that suits them, they are more authentic, happier, healthier, more fulfilled.

What is the subject of your book and coaching programs?

Julia Noyel: They are for all those who wish to change their lives and realize a life that suits them, especially INFP, highly sensitives, empaths, intuitives. I wanted to share my experience in my book and training and encourage everyone to live a life that suits, to be happy, healthy AND successful. In my book and coaching you will not find one right solution, but tips how you can achieve and lead authentically a life that makes you personally happy by using your own innovative approach by using your unique gift.

Hum. You give a lot of personal examples in your book and training programs. Why you wanted to change your life?

Julia Noyel: I studied what was recommended to me; to study economics was considered good on the resume. I found my first job in a large consulting firm, this was in accordance with my studies and my career, I have earned my living, I was recognized for my skills, but I wanted to have enough time to do the things I really liked to do, be available for things that were important to me, my children, my spouse, my family.

. I wanted to help people, do things that made sense for me to do more creative things. I‘ve changed jobs every two years. My body was telling me that I was not in harmony with myself.

What do you want then change in your life?

Julia Noyel:  I am not one of those who can work all day in an office. I am very close to nature and I love beauty. I want to spend my time in a healthy, safe, beautiful space. Long hours of work in a tight and impersonal space, and many people is not what I like. When I was back in my quiet and beautiful home, I was a different person, I was happy and full of energy! At home, I could move mountains. So I wanted to change my working environment and have more time for myself, my children, the person I truly deeply love. I wondered how I could get to live a life that suits me.

So you have reoriented professionally and you managed to turn your dream into reality!

Julia Noyel: Yes. Today I live my life as I had imagined it.

How did you know what kind of life you want?

Julia Noyel: I took a lot of time to think about what I really want and where my strengths were. At the time, I asked myself a lot of ques- tions to find out what makes me happy, I read a lot of books and I wanted answers. I tried different methods. After having read 300 books on personal development, I realized I could not find an answer in the books, but I had to listen to my inner voice. The answer was just in me.

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That‘s interesting. What is your secret? How have you changed your life?

Julia Noyel: Yes, it‘s a very good question: How did I do? I thought about what were my values, talent, what job and what life could match. I have thus defined the life that suits me, I have prepared my bag and then I started to go to the desired life. So I realized step by step MY life.

What question should everyone ask to be happier and to succeed in life?

Julia Noyel: It is important to listen to yourself, to be true to yourself. You should listen to your body, learn to feel, follow your intuition and get rid of false beliefs. To be aware of your true emotions, needs. Learn to distinguish “what are my own desires and beliefs, which are those of my parents, my partner, my teachers etc.”

Here are some important key questions to ask:

• What is my current life?
• Am I happy?
• What is my desired life?
• What do I really want?

• Why I have not changed yet?
• Whar are my talents?
• What should I put in my backpack?

All these questions I asked to myself again and again. In my book „Black sheep live better“  I go in detail how I did this, give practical exercises to help people to get answers to their questions.

What is particularly important when looking for an answer to these questions?

Julia Noyel: It is important to listen to your inner voice, intuition, not just to your reason. If I enjoy doing something, so I feel good. If I am passionate about my life, I will succeed.

What were the biggest challenges to overcome?

Julia Noyel: I am a very spiritual, creative but practical person. I would say quite a good balance between the spiritual and tangiable world. So I used a mixture of mind and energy work tools. I built a strategy, followed my action plan and used my creativity.

 

Are you not afraid of being excluded, of being an „outsider“?

Julia Noyel: No. I find that life is precious. I want to achieve my life my way, to be creative, create a better world, have time for my children, the person I truly love. So I began to live my life as I wanted.

But is not it a bit selfish?

Julia Noyel: It is important to lead a life that is in alignement with who you truly are, that allows you to have enough time for your children, the person you truly love. It helps you to be truly available for others.

Do you think anyone can achieve the desired life? Or were you just lucky?

Julia Noyel: I do not think it has anything to do with luck. People tell me: “You are lucky you can work from home.” It is simply my choice. I worked hard for it. I believe that anyone who really wants to achieve ones desired life can do so. Anyone who knows what life is suitable who knows his or her strengths can with some methods, a defined strategy, achieve the goal.

The will, the right tools, perseverance, an active attitude is essential to achieve the desire life.

Today you are an author, coach, trainer, consultant. What are your core competencies?

Julia Noyel: I advise people who want to live a happy, healthy AND successful life. My approach is practical and spiritual. My motto is „simple creative, and intuitive.“ I help them to understand what they want in life; understand their personnality, find their strengths, define a vision and set a plan to achieve their goals. Once the desired life is clear, I help to release blockages, fears on the way to the desired life. I give the necessary methods and tools in hand that the client can apply in daily life. My aim is to foster my clients autonomy and self-determination. I help the client to find the own innovative approach, take full responsability for their life, success.

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Is the twin flame journey worth the effort

 

Is the twin flame journey worth the effort by Julia Noyel

 

Is the twin flame journey worth the effort

by Julia Noyel

You are on twin flame journey and wonder, is this worth the effort? Have you tried to reunite for months with your twin flame maybe years wondering if you should continue to put effort in? In this article I want to share with you 5 benefits being on a twin flame journey and why this is worth the effort succeed.

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful life, specialist INFP, highly sensitive, creatives, empaths‘You will feel your true deep nature an amazing wonderful feeling’ – Julia Noyel

 

Continue believing in you and your twin flame you will be helpful to be rewarded for your hard efforts (1)

Continue believing in you and your twin flame will be helpful for being rewarded for your hard efforts. You will get what you have asked for as long as this is in alignment with true deep love, romance, healthy passion, happiness, health and success, thus children, marriage, financial and love abundance, true deep intense love, feelings of joy, healthy passion, romance happiness, health and success on a sustainable basis with your twin flame.

feeling your true deep nature (2)

You will feel your true deep nature an amazing wonderful feeling to feel so deeply connected to your deep feminine essence and to feel your man’s strong masculine essence.

re.experiencing something very deep  (3)

You will experience a relationship based on true deep love and romance, harmony. A peaceful yet passionate relationship. Deep unity and understanding with your twin flame and you.

become very very strong (4)

During your twin flame journey you will become super resilient, get your power back and learn to master your unique talent to create happiness, health and success, true deep love and romance,  make this world a better world.

truly seen (5)

You will be appreciated for who you truly are and for what you do. Your true nature, body, mind, soul, yourself will be truly seen by you, your twin flame and others. You will finally shine on all levels.

In my program get true deep love back into your life – success on all levels I show you how I sped up the twin flame journey, succeed in goals I set myself. In this program I show you the exact strategy I have used.

How to raise my child – 3 (out of 6) mistakes to avoid (cont’)

How to raise my child – 3 (out of 6) mistakes to avoid (cont')How to raise my child – 3 (out of 6) mistakes to avoid (cont’ mistake 4-6)

by Julia Noyel

Do you want to be the best parent you can be… but are you afraid that you don’t have the right skills or that you will harm your child in any way?

If you are afraid, I understand you, because being a parent is a big responsibility, especially if you want to be an ideal parent. I believe ideal parents are much needed in this world. So I congratulate you for the courage, willingness, and love you have to become an ideal parent. If you have read my article ‘How to raise my child – 3 (of 6) mistakes to avoid’ in which I share with you mistakes 1 to 3, you know how important I think it is to have the right skills to prepare our children for life and lay the foundations strong enough to enable them to lead happy, healthy and successful lives. I have seen and heard many parents make the same mistakes over and over again. They have invested all their energy and all their money in the education of their children and are disappointed that their children are unhappy, sick, or do not succeed in life as adults. In this article, I will share with you 3 out of 6 errors that I have observed.

Avoid making these mistakes if you want to raise happy, healthy, successful children.

Make sure you don’t make any of the following mistakes to help your children be happy, healthy and successful later in life. Here are the 3 out of 6 errors that I could observe:

“I think as a parent you need to take a critical view of your parents’ parenting style.” -Julia Noyel

Mistake n°4 – repeat behavior transmitted by their own parents that were not the best

Raising children who are happy, healthy, and successful in life is probably the goal of all parents. But how can you make sure the goal is achieved? As a parent, I believe it’s important to evaluate your own parents’ parenting methods objectively without blaming them.
By that, I don’t mean judging or criticizing your own parents, but simply seeing what was helpful and what was less helpful.
 

Mistake n°5 – use communication style without knowing the impact on your child’s self-confidence and self-esteem

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful lifeThe following questions can help you:

  1. Am I aware of my words and their consequences?
  2. Do I repeat the same phrases and words with my children that I heard from my own parents without thinking consciously?

If so, I believe for helping your children to be happy, healthy, and successful, it’s important to watch over your words. Avoid a communication style that can have a negative effect on your children’s self-esteem and self-confidence.

Mistake n°6 – being not aware of the long term consequences of their behavior

Are you aware of the long-term consequences of your parenting style? To reduce problems, crises, conflicts for your children, it is useful to have a strategy, a structured approach, a process and skills. I believe there is a well-thought-out process that helps raise happy, healthy, and successful children in life.

Do you want to learn skills to raise happy, healthy and successful children? In my 8 week program “Master the Art of Raising Happy, Healthy and Successful Children”, you will learn how to build strong inner SUBSTANCE, increase self-esteem, be confident, and raise HAPPY children, HEALTHY and successful. Learn more about my parenting coaching program here…

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6 things better to avoid when wanting to raise happy, healthy & successful children

3 things better to avoid when wanting to raise happy, healthy & successful children

by Julia Noyel

Have you ever asked yourself the question: How to raise your child correctly? After many years of research and teaching children, I have long wondered how to raise a child properly to help them to be happy, healthy and successful in life. Can we also speak of a ‘true or false’ when we talk about the education of children?

” I believe if you want to be a better parent it is important to take some precautions to help your child acquire certain essential skills and help him build a balanced personality. –Julia Noyel

I believe that if we want to raise happy, healthy, successful children with self-confidence, and if we want to be a better parent, we must reflect on the question, “How do I raise my child properly?” and take some precautions to help your child acquire certain essential skills and help him build a balanced personality.

Avoid making these 3 things if you want to raise happy, healthy, successful children.

If you are a parent and have ever wondered if you were doing everything right, how best to raise your children, or how best to help your children grow into happy, healthy and successful adults in life, it is time to look at this point a little more in detail. Make sure you don’t make any of the following things to help your children be happy, healthy and successful later in life. Here are the 3 out of 6 errors that I could observe:

n°1 – being unclear about the parent’s role

Many decide to have children for love. Once the baby is in our life, love is important, but to help our child become happy, healthy and successful later in life, it is beneficial to know our precise role as a parent. I think that as a parent you play a very important role in the development of your child. Your child needs to prepare for life and to learn essential skills.

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful life
The following exploration question may help you:
What kind of life do I want for my child in the future?

Once you have an answer to this question you have the opportunity to teach yourself the skills you need to raise happy, healthy and successful children.

n°2 – having no idea what skills a child needs to become a self-confident, happy, healthy & successful individual

Did you know that certain skills are helpful to your child to be confident, happy, healthy and successful in life? The good news is that there are many skills you can teach your child to be confident, happy, healthy, and successful in life.

The following question may help you: what are these skills to lead a happy, healthy and successful life?

Once you know what skills I’m talking about here, you can focus on teaching your child those skills every day through your behavior and parenting style.

n°3 – lacking the competences in parenting

How many years of training did you take to be a confirmed parent? Just think of the number of years dedicated to education and studies, until we become experts in our field, think of the time it takes to invest in building our career. It seems normal to study for years: go to school, do an apprenticeship or go to university.

My question: For your parental role, are you trained or have you thought about training? The good news is that you can easily learn important skills to be a better parent!

Do you want to learn skills to raise happy, healthy and successful children? In my 8 week program “Master the Art of Raising Happy, Healthy and Successful Children”, you will learn how to build strong inner SUBSTANCE, increase self-esteem, be confident, and raise HAPPY children, HEALTHY and successful. Learn more about my parenting coaching program here…

© Julia Noyel 2019, photo: Fotolia © buritora, all rights reserved.

Why you should think twice before following your intuition when raising your child

Why you should think twice before following your intuition when raising your child

Have you ever wondered how to get it right when it comes to raising your child? Is listening to your intuition all you need when it comes to raising your children or what it needs to raise happy, healthy & successful children? Well, you are not alone!

I didn’t know how to educate children and that worried me for a long time to the point of postponing my plan to have children. Not knowing which behavior was harmful and which one not would not have made me feel better. The contrary was the case. Honestly, not knowing would have increased my anxiety.

“When it comes to our parenting and eduction style, specially communication what naturally seems to be right is not always in the best interest of our child.”- Julia Noyel

Coming from the corporate world I knew that many companies paid much attention to preventing risks, so I was wondering why I should not when it comes to children? When it comes to parenting, should I swim in the ocean after the shipwreck in whatever direction just hoping to land safely?

I believe, what seems natural to us is not always our intuition and not always brings happiness, health & success to your children’s life. I observed some methods are proven to be appropriate if you want to help your child to set a foundation for a happy, healthy & successful life. I believe listening to and following our intuition in life is important also when it comes to our children. We need to listen to our gut feelings to feel the baby’s needs, to protect our child from danger, to detect lies and problems. However, when it comes to our parenting and education style, we need skills! Especially in communication. What naturally seems to be right is not always in the best interest of our child.

Become a SUPER Parent.

In my practical guide “How to master the art of raising happy, healthy & successful children” I share with you my children’s education strategy, my SUBSTANCE-Formula, a 9 step process to help you to to create a solid foundation for a happy, healthy & successful life for your chiild. You will get my tools delivered in a well-structured and easy, memorable way, learn how to better know yourself and your child. This will help you to feel safe and relaxed in your role as a parent and make you become one of the best parents. Get more information and instant access here.

 

Julia Noye founder of art of a different, happy, healthy & successful life, specialist INFP, highly sensitive, creatives, empaths

Julia Noyel is the founder of the art of a different, happy, healthy & successful life. Her goal is to promote kindness, peace and love (romance) and to make this world a better place. She has made it her mission to help as many people as possible live a different, happy, healthy and successful life. 

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